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He has told me that he would probably start having sex with them again if we don’t work out.He doesn’t really say anything inappropriate to them, and I don’t think he’d cheat on me physically.(And if he did, he’d be a different person and maybe not one you could love.) The real deal is that you’re quite uncomfortable that your boyfriend doesn’t share your values about sex, and you’re that much more uncomfortable that he has these close female friends with whom he does share those values and friendships of which you’re not a close part.In fact, you’ve allowed that discomfort create a whole situation in your head in which they are conspiring against you, treating you as an “intermission” to their no-strings-attached bonefest and considering you a laughingstock, with no evidence.You need to stop pressuring him to create enough distance with his friends for your peace of mind (is there enough distance for that?), because he’s said he’s not willing to and because it’s hurting your relationship.Well, let me start by saying to anyone, including your boyfriend, that when your partner is even a little insecure about you being friends with people with whom you used to bump uglies, the appropriate thing to do even when specifically asked whether you would ever trip the light fantastic with them again if not in a relationship is to say, “No.” It’s never going to help, it’s always going to cause problems and whose genitals with which you might or might not engage at some hypothetical later point were your current relationship to be over will be, at that point, none of your hypothetical-ex’s business (unless it’s a family member or maybe a good friend of their’s) so it’s sort of not their business now. But the fact of the matter is that you don’t respect what he’s done, you don’t accept his point of view about what sex and intimacy mean to him in various circumstances and you don’t trust either him nor his friends-who-he-used-to-bone.
Emotional intimacy isn’t necessarily finite, and, in fact, being able to maintain long-term relationships that include emotional intimacy, even if it’s not partnered-intimacy, with other people is a good sign of his ability to maintain an emotional intimacy as a partner. Only you can create a situation in which you feel like you have nothing to worry about.Maybe they went out and did stuff like go to the movies, maybe they talked about their feelings, maybe they did so before and after they had sex here and there.But they weren’t his girlfriend, and you are – at least for now. And that’s really the only difference he can give you, because he can’t change the past, even if he wanted to.He leans on them emotionally and (when he’s single) physically… And just because he isn’t actually having sex with them currently, I still feel like they might as well be because the intention/desire is still there, like they’re just taking a break for a while and I’m part of the intermission.I feel like a joke to these girls because I want to think our relationship is special when they’ve had him this way for years.