Disadvantages of dating a married man
I've been trying to forget him since then and call off the relationship, but I am not being able to do so." Dr.
Arvinder Singh, a psychotherapist and consultant says, "There is usually a lot of guilt associated with such relationships.
Both taste devilishly good, but both are sinfully bad! Dr Kamal Khurana, a marriage and relationship counselor explains, "Women who fall for married men are usually seeking attention and emotional support.
Yet, what is it about a married or the so-called 'committed' man that attracts women? Since married men seem to be more experienced and mature, they get attracted towards them.
So Haltzman is busy researching ways to help understand the relationship patterns of husbands and wives.
He has set up an internet community for married men to share their experiences and wisdom about marriage.
" Dating a married man could probably stigmatise you with many condemnable titles and may not be an easy experience to endure, for being the 'other woman' entails a lot of sacrifices.
Even more difficult can be living with the bitter truth that you are sharing him with his wife.
When a person doesn't get enough love and understanding from his partner, he tries to fulfill his/her needs elsewhere to satisfy himself.
When another person fulfills his emotional need by appreciating him or understanding his problems, he/she falls for him," adds Dr Arvinder.
Assess whether the man you are dating is pursuing the relationship because he loves you or he just because he wants to take advantage of you.
Poonam Tiwari (name changed on request), 34, who works with a multi-national company in Noida adds, "I am in love with a married man who has a son. Mine was an arranged marriage, but after a year, lot of differences started creeping into our relationship.